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Beautiful Outlaw | Video Study

14. Letting Jesus Be Himself – With You

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What limits have you unknowingly placed on Jesus? In this powerful session, John Eldredge invites you to consider how your past experiences, trauma, religious training—or even low self-worth—may be shaping your view of Jesus. More than that, it may be shaping how much of him you’re willing to experience.

Jesus will often meet us through the “kitchen window”—our limited expectations or distorted beliefs—because he’s committed to relationship. But he also longs to be known for who he really is. The religious Jesus, the one who always feels distant or serious or disappointed in you, isn’t the Jesus of the Gospels. The true Jesus touches lepers, cracks jokes, restores friends, and makes breakfast on the beach.

This session gives language to the brokenness that shapes our perception of Christ—and offers real hope for healing. If you’ve ever believed “Jesus doesn’t speak to me,” or “I’m never good enough for God,” this message is a life-giving invitation to let Jesus shatter false assumptions and simply be himself with you.

To go deeper, read the book Beautiful Outlaw, or access the video study series and PDF participants guide. Explore related reflections like “False Reverence”, “Let Him In”, and “Jesus Restores Peter”. Discover more about John Eldredge and explore companion video series like Wild At Heart: The Series.


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13. Loving Jesus

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To truly know Jesus is to love him—and to love him is to come alive. In this moving conclusion to the Beautiful Outlaw series, John Eldredge reminds us that Jesus is not just a noble example or sacred figure for religious devotion. He is our deepest need, our closest friend, and the very essence of life itself.This isn’t about having the “right” view of Jesus—it’s about loving him. Not with formality or religious detachment, but with a heart awakened to his presence in your everyday life. When we speak to him with affection, share our daily moments with him, and welcome his life into ours, something beautiful happens. Love opens the soul to communion.But to do this, we must also let go of false reverence—of stained-glass language and distant titles. Jesus didn’t want to be called “The Good Lord” or approached through mediators. He told us to call God “Papa.” He insisted on being known as “Jesus.” He swam in our waters, walked our dusty roads, and wrapped his arms around his friends in spontaneous joy. And today, he still wants nothing more than to walk with you.You were made for a daily, intimate, life-giving relationship with Jesus. The kind that prompts you, like Peter, to leap into the water just to get to him.Want to go deeper? Read the book Beautiful Outlaw, explore the complete video series, or download the participant’s guide. Learn more about John Eldredge or explore companion reflections like “False Reverence” and “Love in Action”. For more cinematic explorations of Jesus’ heart, check out Wild At Heart: The Series.

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July 6, 2014

PDF – Participant's Guide

Beautiful Outlaw

This participant’s guide is designed to be a companion for an individual or small group that is using the video series and book Beautiful Outlaw by John Eldredge. There are 18 sections of this guide, which tie together with the 17 chapters, plus the epilogue, of the book.

October 30, 2023

PDF – Leader's Guide

Beautiful Outlaw

Tips and encouragement to help you lead the 18-part Beautiful Outlaw series.

October 30, 2023

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