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Envy - Part 4
In this final session, John and Blaine share ways to break agreements with offense and restore a culture of admiration.
Loving Men with John Eldredge
Recorded Live at Captivating. We all have men in our lives – fathers, brothers, husbands, sons, friends, co-workers. How do we love them well? We truly can't love well until we renounce our self-reproach. We must first love ourselves. We also can't love the men in our life well until we forgive the men who may have hurt us. At a recent Captivating, John takes the women into the "locker room" for a glimpse of a man's soul, sharing insight into men's vs. women's fears, and walks us through prayer for deeper healing and forgiveness.
92 | The Conservationist Bowhunter
Brian Dreher is one of four Senior Terrestrial Biologist's in the state of Colorado. He got his masters studying bears. He's also an avid bowhunter. Enough said, right? Brian and Morgan have been longtime friends thanks to a shared passion of the wilderness, hunting, and conservation. Brian lives in a space between the interest groups of politicians with agendas, hunters and recreation enthusiast who want to maximize opportunities, and the care for the land and the animals so the resources thrive over time. That friendship, and that position, is what initiated our conversation today.
Envy – Part 3
The breeding ground for envy is "The Triumph of the Offended Self". John and Blaine Eldredge reveal the power of choosing love over the self-life.
35 – Embracing Truth About Our Bodies – 01/24/2019
Who are you partnering with in your journey with your body... the enemy or your creator? Join Lisa Beck as she unpacks misconceptions many of us hold about our own bodies. Video Clips From January 2019 1. This is Me Rehearsal: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XLFEvHWD_NE2. Wonder: Start at 23:39 Stop at 26:05 (Also available here slightly longer https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Fa1auhluqM4)3. Embrace (Netflix): Start at 58:09 Stop at 57:41 (Netflix counts down time)4. Anne with an E (Netflix Series): Start at 1:28:31 Stop at 1:20:29 (Netflix counts down time) Worship Set from January 2019You Say - (4:35) (Lauren Dangle; Look Up Child)How Beautiful - (6:56) (Mosaic MSC; Glory & Wonder)More Than Ashes - (5:54) (Tim Reimherr; Let the Weak Speak)Closer - (6:54) (Stephanie Gretzinger; For the Sake of the World)Speak To Me - (7:39) (Kari Jobe; The Garden)Loving Me - (5:11) (Brian McCleery; Worth the Wait)Your Word - (7:00) (Hillsong Worship; Let There Be Light)You're Worthy of it All - (5:20) (Shane & Shane; The Worship Initiative, Vol. 12)Your Are Mine - (5:24) (Mosaic MSC; Glory & Wonder)
91 | Greg Winters - The Soul of the Craftsman
Back in the fall I (Blaine here) started building a mini barn in my backyard. Doing so dismantled a great many misconceptions I held about building and craftsmanship, like how good I was at it, and what it would be like. Example: I assumed craft would be contemplative and monastic, but it turns out that’s only true if you already have a contemplative and monastic disposition. To talk this through, we asked builder and finish carpenter and longtime craftsman Greg Winters to come into the studio and explain the soul of the craftsman. This isn’t just about learning to make certain cuts. It’s learning work through failure, to focus, to live in the present. It’s learning to step back from a project and let the mind come to rest. Most of all, it’s developing the ability to reach out for the Father in the places he’s expressing himself. Carpentry resists isolation. And that’s a good thing. It’s an opportunity to learn the life of a son.
Envy – Part 2
Envy aimed at you and your family is a form of spiritual warfare – but rarely seen that way. Discover how God's love can overcome it.
90 | The Proverbs and Power - How to Want Things Worth Wanting
“Two things I ask of you, Lord; do not refuse me before I die: Keep falsehood and lies far from me; give me neither poverty nor riches, but give me only my daily bread.” Yup. The Proverbs say some things about wealth and power we rarely say or pray. In this episode, we dive in to desire: what is worth wanting? Which is another way of saying, what nourishes the human soul? Because it doesn’t seem to be power, that is, wealth, success or influence, even though I (Blaine) spend a lot time thinking about how to get those things. Instead, the wisdom of the ages advocate for righteousness, a concept translated in the New Testament as eudaimonia, or flourishing. That’s all well and good, but we’d like to know, how does someone actually want righteousness? What’s it look like? And, maybe most importantly, how does it interact with the world’s concept of power? The answers are out there, folks, from wanting wisdom to asking for a God-listening heart. We’ve got a ways to go, but dismantling misleading aspirations is a good place to start.
Envy – Part 1
John and Blaine Eldredge begin a four-part series on the toxic effects of Envy on our soul, joy, and gifting.
89 | Bart Hansen - Maturing Adventure [Explicit]
“If your life with God doesn’t have a regular dose of adventure,” Padre says, “It’s not going to sustain the masculine soul.” That’s all well and good, but what if you live in the city? What if you have young kids? What if any one of a hundred what-ifs make adventure difficult? To answer that question, we snagged Bart Hansen, of the Ransomed Heart team. Bart has built rockets, parasails, and airplanes, flown all over the west, and done some of the craziest things we’ve ever heard. But it turns out none of those things define his life of adventure. Nope. Instead, Bart uses three categories to explore adventure as it relates to the life of the heart: Casual, Crucial and Epic Adventure. Casual adventures are everyday outings. Crucial adventures involve the maturation of the soul. Epic adventures hinge upon the risk of love. It turns out we need all three. From swim training in a snow storm to pursuing irritating neighbors to loving the woman in your life, this is an episode everyone needs.
A Captivating Invitation
Wild at Heart has a special announcement regarding our April 2019 Captivating event that women and men will want to hear. Discover more in this conversation featuring Stasi Eldredge, Stacey Burton, and Allen Arnold.
88 | When Information Becomes Action
We've touched on learning before, and this isn't a repeat episode. Recently a young man asked us how we learn things, as in, how we gain skills or information that actually effects our daily lives. Which is really the point of all that information out there, isn't it? Here's the excerpt from the poem by Edna St. Vincent Millay from the episode: "Upon this gifted age, in its dark hour, Rains from the sky a meteoric shower Of facts . . . they lie unquestioned, uncombined. Wisdom enough to leech us of our ill Is daily spun, but there exists no loom To weave it into fabric."
Restoration Year
What do you want to be different this year? John and Allen share how to discover God's unique "theme" or advance words for you in 2019.
87 | "I Trust You"
Our identities are shaped by our stories, by the messages we receive from those around us, and by the scripts we seem doomed to live out. But out identity as we know it may not be who we really, truly, are. What we speak over others and over ourselves has immense power, and so much more so when we speak statements of identity. What are the statements you believe about yourself? What if you could exchange your script for a new, better, more hopeful one? What if everyone you knew said, "I trust you"? What would you live like then?
A Christmas Prayer
It can feel impossible during Christmas week to maintain the rhythms that bring us life. To draw us back to God, John and Craig offer a powerful prayer of Christmas mercies and blessings.
86 | Wookie Jones: Risk and risk and risk... the freelance life
Wookie is a designer, coffee shop owner, New Hampshire-based motorcycle rider. He’s a fascinating young dude with a penchant for risk and plenty of insight into which scooter to buy. We roped him in for a few reasons. When you see a guy who owns a coffee shop, works freelance, and maintains a stable of sweet bikes, its hard to imagine how all that happened. We wanted to know the story. What would the established freelancer tell the young freelancer? How do you manage risk when you have so many irons in the fire? And how do you keep your love of motorcycles alive when you’ve got a wife and house and kids? As Wookie admits, the story is messy, but there are always takeaways, and the lessons are invaluable.