Daily Reading
January 5, 2025
Besides these false comforters that we abide in, there are also the less-wild lovers that are intertwined with our heart because they give us an identity. Whether it be accumulating wealth, being seen as profound due to our knowledge and cleverness o...
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January 5, 2025
Two years ago, worn out by three years of spiritual battle, I found myself asking the question this way: “Jesus, if your Spirit abides in me, why do I so often feel alone and you seem so far away?” What came to me in response were Jesus’ words in Joh...
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January 5, 2025
Every courtship, at least every healthy one, is moving toward a deeper heart intimacy that is the ground for the consummation of the relationship spiritually, emotionally, and physically. Remember—the intimacy and adventure plays out differently for ...
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January 5, 2025
God’s imagery of going before us lets us know that he desires us to go on a journey. This is not so frightening. Most of us are aware that the Christian life requires a pilgrimage of some sort. We know we are sojourners. What we have sometimes not gi...
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January 5, 2025
Resignation is not just the sigh that groans with something gone wrong. Such a sigh can be redemptive if it does not let go of the Haunting we have all experienced of something presently lost. Resignation is the acceptance of the loss as final. It is...
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January 5, 2025
Once we begin thinking of all the deceptions the enemy is about with regard to our lives, we have a tendency to become obsessed with him, fearful of what he is going to do next. Once we take him seriously, he switches from his tactic of “I’m not here...
Daily Reading
January 5, 2025
Satan uses the Arrows that strike all of us this side of the Fall and weaves them into a story line to convince us that we cannot live without the disguise of our false self, the role we are playing out in what John and I have been calling our “small...
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January 5, 2025
Satan continues to use the evil that he himself creates to tell us a very different story. In his version, good is gained through our own understanding, not through a relationship with God. Life is gained by appropriating what we can see with our own...
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January 5, 2025
God and Satan each have a design, a battle plan, to capture our heart’s devotion. The intimacy, beauty, and adventure of the Sacred Romance are placed and nurtured in the deepest longings of our heart by God himself. God’s grand strategy, birthed in ...
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January 5, 2025
Being unable to defeat God through raw power, Satan’s legions decide to wound God as deeply as possible by stealing the love of his Beloved through seduction. And having “seduced them to his party,” to ravish them body and soul; and having ravished t...
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January 5, 2025
And there was war in heaven. Michael and his angels fought against the dragon, and the dragon and his angels fought back. But he was not strong enough, and they lost their place in heaven. The great dragon was hurled down—that ancient serpent called ...
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January 5, 2025
Our souls were made to live in the Larger Story, but as Chesterton discovered, we have forgotten our part: We have all read in scientific books, and indeed, in all romances, the story of the man who has forgotten his name. This man walks about the st...
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January 5, 2025
The gospel says that we are God’s Beloved, his Intimate Allies, and we created a cosmic crisis. It says we, too, were stolen from our True Love and that he launched the greatest campaign in the history of the world to get us back. God created us for ...
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January 5, 2025
Consider just two essential realities that flow from this fact. First, we are created in the image of God, or more precisely, as a reflection of the Trinity. If we really understood this wonderful truth deep in our hearts, it would probably bring rev...
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January 5, 2025
I am my beloved’s and his desire is for me. —Song of Songs Whatever else she felt, Helen of Troy must have felt wanted. Two kingdoms went to war over her; thousands of men gave up their lives so that one might have her. Hers was “the face that launc...
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January 5, 2025
God begins our courtship with a surprise. Taking the blindfold off, he turns us around and reveals his handmade wedding present. “Here,” he says. “It’s yours. Enjoy yourselves. Do you like it? Take it for a spin.” A lavish gift indeed. It speaks to t...
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January 5, 2025
We’re after God’s story, the drama from his perspective, so we would do better to start with the opening lines from the gospel of John, which take us back even farther to the once upon a time before time: “In the beginning was the Word, and the Word ...
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January 5, 2025
So long as we imagine it is we who have to look for God, we must often lose heart. But it is the other way about—He is looking for us. —Simon Tugwel Can it possibly get any more uncertain than this? We so long for life to be better than it is. We w...
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January 5, 2025
What is this drama God has dropped us into the middle of? What act of the play are we in and what do our scenes have to do with the larger story being told? Is our well-being even a consideration in the story line? There is a stirring scene in Shakes...
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January 5, 2025
When the living God of the Old Testament came along, he seemed to fit right in with this way of thinking, describing himself as the God of Abraham, Isaac, and Jacob. He gave Moses a regimen of laws, rituals, and ceremonies to be followed if the Israe...
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January 5, 2025
Indeed, the things that have happened to us often suggest that the real script of the play we’re all living in is “God is indifferent” rather than “God is love.” Deep down in our heart, in the place where the story is formed, this experience of God a...
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January 5, 2025
“Do you care for me, God?” What’s under that question? “The heart has its reasons that reason knows not of,” Pascal said. What’s under that question is our personal stories, often punctuated by the Message of the Arrows: parents who were emotionally...
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January 5, 2025
In centuries past, the church viewed the gospel as a Romance, a cosmic drama that permeates our own stories and draws together our fragmented stories into a redemptive whole. Too many expressions of Christianity today have lost that truth. Their gosp...
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January 5, 2025
The deepest convictions of our heart are formed by stories and reside there in the images and emotions of story. Advances in neuroscience reveal that the human brain organizes information in the form of narrative, using the structure of story to make...
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January 5, 2025
The Arrows strike at the most vital places in our hearts, the things we care most about. The deepest questions we ever ask are directly related to our heart’s greatest needs, and the answers life gives us shape our images of ourselves, of life, and o...
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January 5, 2025
For what shall we do when we wake one day to find we have lost touch with our heart and with it the very refuge where God’s presence resides? Starting very early, life has taught all of us to ignore and distrust the deepest yearnings of our heart. Li...
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January 5, 2025
The truth of the gospel of Jesus is intended to free us to love God and others with our whole heart and to find a life worth living. When we ignore this heart aspect of our faith and try to live out our religion solely as correct doctrine or the purs...
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January 5, 2025
In all of our hearts lies a longing for a Sacred Romance. It will not go away in spite of our efforts over the years to anesthetize or ignore its song, or attach it to a single person or endeavor. It is a Romance couched in mystery and set deeply wit...
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January 5, 2025
“There are only two things that pierce the human heart,” wrote Simone Weil. One is beauty. The other is affliction. And while we wish there were only beauty in the world, each of us has known enough pain to raise serious doubts about the universe we ...
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January 5, 2025
At some point we all face the same decision—what will we do with the Arrows we’ve known? Maybe a better way to say it is, what have they tempted us to do? However they come to us, whether through a loss we experience as abandonment or some deep viola...