ADDICTION & GRACE
by Gerald G. May, M.D.
May has been very helpful in explaining the psychology, physiology, and spiritual nature of our addictions. It's a compassionate, thoughtful, and hope-filled treatment of an issue we all battle.
Here is a beginning list (and it is only a beginning!) of books we have found inspiring or helpful—or both! This really isn’t fair—there are so many great authors and so many great books. By listing these we run the risk of offending others or implying these are, somehow, better. Nope. We just took a quick look across our shelves and thought, What would I want my friends to read? That’s all.
by Gerald G. May, M.D.
May has been very helpful in explaining the psychology, physiology, and spiritual nature of our addictions. It's a compassionate, thoughtful, and hope-filled treatment of an issue we all battle.
by Dan Allender and Dr. Tremper Longman III
The ultimate expression of our maturity is in how we relate to others, particularly those we find difficult to love. This book is pretty disruptive in challenging how we relate to the wide assortment of characters that fill our lives.
by Frederick Buechner
Buechner is a novelist who's written some gems on the spiritual life. This little book explores our lives and the story of God in a beautiful, compassionate way, using everything from King Lear to The Wizard of Oz. One of our favorites! (So—is it tragedy, comedy, or fairy tale? If we told you ahead of time it would ruin the story.)
by C.S. Lewis
Lewis was perhaps one of the greatest writers and thinkers of the twentieth century. This is his famous classic on the basic ideas of Christianity without all that goofy church stuff (thus the "mere" Christianity). A brilliant book.
by G.K. Chesterton
Another brilliant writer and profound thinker, Chesterton understands the Story quite well. Clever, witty, deeply moving. One of our favorite lines of his is, "Poets do not go mad, but chess players do." In other words, a purely analytical approach to life will leave you desperate, while a poetic or heart-filled approach can bring you the answers you seek.
by C.S. Lewis
Lewis' fairy tale series has become a classic allegory for the Christian life. It is both charming and insightful, rich and profound. Somehow, the truths of the Bible seem more accessible through these stories. A must-read, sometime in your life.
by John Bunyan
Written while in prison for taking a stand for religious liberty, Bunyan's story of one man's mythic journey to find immortal life has become a classic. There's a reason this little allegory has remained a favorite since its publication in 1678. Despite the hundreds of years between us, it speaks deeply to our own journeys with many needed warnings and encouragements.
by Francis Schaeffer
This book is for the much more philosophically-oriented reader who is wrestling with questions about God's existence and how he communicates to man.
by Anne Lamott
Speaking of unconventional, Lamott is a brutally honest and compassionate writer who describes her "reluctant" journey to faith in Jesus Christ. No religion here, just a true account of a soul being found by God. Sometimes very edgy, but that's why we like it.
by A.W. Tozer
Remember, there is a great difference between knowing about God and truly knowing God. A lot of books and speakers out there talk about God. Tozer knew him well, and this is our favorite book by him. A short but penetrating read. Okay, it's life changing.
by George MacDonald
A Scottish poet and pastor from the 19th century, MacDonald was a man who knew God more intimately than just about anybody we've ever read. This is a beautiful and deeply inspiring book. We read it every year.
by Dan Allender
Dan is a very wise and insightful counselor who has spent his life helping people understand their story and find one worth living in. We think this is his best book yet.
by Paulo Coelho
A delightful fable of one boy's journey to find his "personal legend." Part Christian, part Muslim, the story shimmers with truths about what it's like to take this journey in search of your role in the Story.
by Thomas A' Kempis
This little classic from the 1400s is a timeless look at the inner life of the friend of God. Maybe a bit severe at times; still, A' Kempis understands the life of the heart given over to God. A great book.
by Henri Nouwen
A simple book on the power of solitude and silence and prayer—the gifts of "the desert fathers" to us—and how they help heal our hearts.
by Blaise Pascal
An amazing collection of thoughts (notes for a book he did not finish before he died) on the spiritual life and the heart of mankind. Really profound, it shaped The Journey of Desire. Try and find the edition by Fount Classics.
by Dallas Willard
One of the best books we've read on, well, just what it says: learning to hear God. He's still speaking to his people, by the way. And it's so good to hear from him.
by Nicolas Wolterstorf
The best book we've found on the grieving process. Raw and honest, but without the anger of A Grief Observed.
by J.R.R. Tolkien
Okay—we had to mention it. We use the films in nearly every conference, but the books are way better. A mythic look into your life, why it is the way it is, and how you must live.
by Larry Crabb
A book that shook our world when it first came out—a fabulous look into your own inner world and the inner world of others.
by Thomas Cahill
Not only because it's a fascinating moment in Christian history (and the history of the world) but because we think it's a remarkable parallel to our own times: a collapsing culture, a dead church, and suddenly, the resurgence of the Gospel of the heart through a passionate and warrior-like people.